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Dr Sonya Mehta is one of the most outspoken and articulate Indian psychologists today.

Practising for the past 15 years, Dr Mehta received her training in the US, where she earned her Ph.D in Psychology.

For the past three years she has served as a consultant to various TV news channels and has been a frequent guest on We the people on NDTV 24X7 hosted by Barkha Dutt and Lounge on NDTV GOOD TIMES.

The mother of two teenagers, Dr Mehta is particularly interested in adolescents and in dealing with relationship issues.

AND SHE is here to answer your queries!

About the show :
Hosted by Rajat Kapoor, Lounge is a tri-weekly chat show which invites real people to tell real stories.

So many people have questions to ask, issues to discuss, problems to fix, experiences to share, stories to tell.

This show gives people the platform to acknowledge issues we should be talking about and to answer questions we should be asking.

It’s a progressive show which talks about things that are happening and changing in India but people are still shying away from.

Through its course different kinds of relationships are explored -- from falling in love to falling out of love, from marriages to divorces – every relationship comes within it scope.

The show celebrates the dynamics of these relationships.

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Question	Hello Dr. Sonya, I have a boyfriend of 2 years.Both of us are staying in different countries away from our motherland.But during these 2 years i have found him very insensitive and inhuman. I dont deny the fact that hez nice person by heart also I know he doesnt have any affair but sometimes he just gets busy in his life so much that he forgets that I even exist. He would not call me for days.When i call him he says he iz busy with his assignments/meetings. This time I met with an accident he dint even bother to ask me about my health inspite of knowing the fact that I am staying alone with no one around. When I left for India this time he dint even kno my itinerary and dint bother to call me up and ask where I would be staying in Delhi since my flight would b landing at 10pm and I have my bus only at 6am next day and I have no one in Delhi. He would always ask me not to disturb him since he has this or that exam.He has full time to go to the temple, movies, cook food for himself including his personl work. but i takes me for granted and puts me in the least priority Queue. When I complain about all these things he would put the entire blame on me asking me to understand his situation of being overloaded with the studies, nd that its my duty to call him up from the airport before leaving which I did but he was busy in a meeting. I dont think this is the way to maintain the distance relationship. I m confused. Plz help if I should be continuing with this kind of person further or not. Posted By: Natasha,[India] Date: Tuesday, October 27, 2009 12:09 PM
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